Sunday, October 11, 2020

Coming to the feast

A Sermon preached on Sunday October 11, 2020 at St. Augustine of Canterbury, Wiesbaden and the Christophskirche, Mainz

Isaiah 25:1-9, Philippians 4:1-9, Matthew 22:1-14

I am not certain that right now we need “a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wines, of rich food filled with marrow, of well-aged wines strained clear.” (Isaiah 25:6) I think we would be happy if we could just have our coffee hour back after church again, mind you it did resemble a feast at times! But both the reading from Isaiah and the parable in Matthew’s Gospel are not about a normal meal, they describe what we call the “messianic banquet,” which is an image of the “blessings of the age to come in which those chosen by God share in a rich feast with the Messiah. In the NT this is often pictured as a marriage supper with Jesus Christ as the groom.”[1] For us as Christians this feast is anticipated in the Eucharist.

Now I don’t know about you, but on first reading I would much prefer to be at Isaiah’s feast, than at Matthew’s. The former is a feast “for all peoples.” (Isaiah 25:6) In the latter, the host sends troops to destroy those who refuse his invitation (admittedly they had also mistreated and killed his messengers first) and when one guest shows up without a tuxedo, he is bound hand and foot, and thrown into the outer darkness. That does not sound very Christian does it?

As always, it helps to put the readings into context. Isaiah’s aim at this point in his ministry is to give his people hope. Only recently exiled to Babylon, having experienced the destruction of their city and the very centre of their worship, they will be wondering if they have put their trust in the right God. Yes, says Isaiah, you have. Our God is worthy of praise and exaltation, Our God has done wonderful things, and our God has plans “formed of old, faithful and sure,” (Isaiah 25:1) even if we don’t see the end yet. Our God is a sure refuge for the poor and the needy and in the end, on the last day, on the Day of the Lord, all peoples will come to Zion, by then wonderfully restored, to join in a magnificent feast with his chosen people. For Isaiah’s message of comfort and reassurance it is important to make clear that while one people, Israel, has been chosen as a sign and symbol and example, God is the God of all people and the great promise to destroy the shroud that is cast over all peoples and to swallow up death forever is for everyone. (Isaiah 25:7-8)

So why is Jesus’ parable of the wedding feast so different, and why does it sound so threatening and frightening and even exclusive? We need to look at context again. One of the more disturbing sentences, “The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city,” (Matthew      22:7) is probably a later insertion by Matthew. You won’t find it in Mark’s earlier version of this parable. By the time Matthew wrote his gospel all down, Jerusalem had already been destroyed by the Romans in AD70. This is what he is alluding to, just like I often bring in a reference to a current or recent event in my sermons to make a story relevant.

Jesus’ intention with this parable is to warn, to try and bring his people back from the brink of a self-inflicted destruction. He also uses it to look back on a long history of rejection. The slaves or servants who are mistreated and killed in the parable stand for the prophets up to and including John the Baptist, who were mocked, ignored, and sometimes killed because of their message. Jesus is teaching against both open rejection and simple complacency. “They made light of” the invitation (22:5), they didn’t see the urgency. Jesus wants to wake them up. God is still inviting you, the chosen people, to be part of God’s kingdom. But if you don’t accept the invitation, then those places will still be used. That is Jesus’ first warning.

The king’s extended invitation is very inclusive, to all the people you find in the highways and byways: Outcasts, lepers, demoniacs, those who carry out despised trades … When Christianity is at its best, we have repeated this pattern, and invited the outcasts of the difference societies we encounter, like the untouchables in India, to follow Christ. Though often of course in a different part of the building, or in a building of their own where we can’t see them.

In the parable we heard how “those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad.” (Matthew 22:10) The good and the bad, saints and sinners. We like that don’t we. Our slogans are “The Episcopal Church Welcomes You” and “God loves you. No exceptions.” 

 

And that is true …. But – and this is Jesus’ second and perhaps for us more uncomfortable warning, there will still be judgment in God’s kingdom. Everyone is invited, and God’s love reaches out to all people wherever and whoever they are, but that does not mean that they are supposed to stay as they are. On the contrary, to accept God’s invitation is to accept the need to change, to be transformed. Theologian Tom Wright says about this passage: “In God’s kingdom love and justice and truth and mercy and holiness reign unhindered. They are the clothes you need to wear for the wedding. And if you refuse to put them on, you are saying you don’t want to stay at the party.”[2]

In the Bible, clothing is often used as a metaphor for behaviour. In Ephesians chapter 6 Paul calls on that community to “put on the full armour of God” consisting of the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And in Romans 13 (13:14) his call is to “clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.” These are not requirements before you can be invited, but they are an appropriate spiritual and moral response to the invitation, as Paul reminds the Philippians at the very end of that letter: “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honourable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. Keep on doing the things that you have learned and received and heard and seen in me.” (Philippians 4:8-9)

God loves racists. But they have no place in heaven if they stay racist – in fact they will feel as uncomfortable as homophobes and misogynists would too, surrounded as they will be by a real rainbow gathering of all sorts of peoples. God loves ruthless, greedy, and arrogant businesspeople and politicians, but God still wants them to change their ways. I could go on. God loves them, but hates what they do and stand for, because it harms them, harms others, and ultimately harms and mars God’s good creation as well. Jesus healed those with physical ailments. And Jesus offers healing for our moral and spiritual ailments too.

We all have need of transformation. So as we accept the invitation to join in the foretaste of the Messianic Feast that is Holy Communion, let us also allow it – Christ’s real presence – to transform us, that we may be clothed with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Amen.



[1] https://www.biblegateway.com/resources/dictionary-of-bible-themes/9150-Messianic-banquet

[2] Tom Wright, Matthew for Everyone II, p. 85

Sunday, September 13, 2020

Limiting forgiveness?

 

A Sermon preached on Sunday September 13, 2020 at St. Augustine’s, Wiesbaden and St. Christoph, Mainz

Genesis 50:15-21, Romans 14:1-12, Matthew 18:21-35

I suspect that it is because I have just become a grandfather that I have started remembering children’s books. One of my favorites is: “Weißt du eigentlich wie lieb ich dich hab?” Or in the original English “Guess how much I love you?” 

It is about a little hare and a big hare. Guess how much I love you, says the little hare stretching his arms out, this much! Which the big hare then copies, and of course that is much more because he is much taller. So the little hare stands on its toes and reaches up: this much, which is also copied by the big hare  …. And so it goes with handstands and jumping into the air until finally the little hare says: I love you all the way to the moon. Oh, that is a very long way, says the big hare and only when the little hare is asleep does he say, “we love one another to the moon and back again.”

In today’s gospel, Peter does not want to know how much Jesus loves him, at least not this time. Instead he wants to know how often should he forgive his brother or sister? As many as seven times (which is already more than Torah demands)? No, Jesus says, “Not seven times, but I tell you, seventy-seven times (or in some sources, seventy times seven).” (Matt. 18:21) Which is a bit like to the moon and back again: an awful lot, as good as without limit.

This is not the first time we have heard about the need to forgive in Matthew’s gospel. Giving and receiving forgiveness is described as an essential element of following Christ. A few chapters earlier, in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said: “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Mt.6:14-15) And of course it also one of the petitions in the prayer that Jesus taught and that is introduced in this gospel just before that explanation: “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” Or “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us,” to use the wording we know so well. I am assuming you all take the Lord’s Prayer seriously, so that linkage – forgive as you are forgiven should not be a surprise. But clearly it was and still is a surprise and a challenge, and so Jesus tells one of his stories to help his listeners understand what this petition really means.

The first thing to focus on in the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant, is that the first slave or servant, probably one the king’s ministers – not a job for elected politicians in those days – is forgiven an unimaginably huge debt. According to one commentary, one silver talent was worth about $1 million and somehow this servant has managed to accumulate a debt of 10,000 talents. And yet it is forgiven completely. The one who owes the first servant money however, owed very, very little in comparison, just 100 denarii. And yet the “unforgiving servant” is unwilling to forgive this debt, despite what he has just received and experienced. The ending of the parable is challenging: “And in anger his lord handed him over to be tortured until he should pay his entire debt. So my heavenly Father will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” (Matthew 18:34-35)

Is that why we should forgive? To avoid eternal damnation and torture, out of fear of punishment? Or is it to make sure that God forgive us?  “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” It sounds like it, but no. That is not the reason. For one thing, forgiveness is actually good for us. Studies have shown that forgiveness aids mental and physical health, while the opposite reaction—holding a grudge and harboring resentment—has the opposite effect. But that is not the main reason either.

Firstly, we do not need to forgive others before we are forgiven. This story is carefully crafted, nothing is accidental, and the king forgives the servant with the huge debt first, without any condition. That is true for us too. In and through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God has already taken upon Godself all our burdens and sins and debts and has forgiven them completely, irrevocably, and utterly. It was an act of love and an invitation to respond in kind, imitating this divine mercy in our lives and relationships. Knowing this, Jesus says, we should be able to forgive others their sins against us. And if we are still counting the number of times that we have forgiven someone, to see if they have run out of credit, then we really have not forgiven them in the first place. Their debt has not been wiped out and we are waiting for payback time.

Secondly, if we do not forgive others as God has forgiven us, then God’s forgiveness does not really take effect and change or lives. Theologian Tom Wright says that only if our heart is open, able, and willing to forgive others, will it also be open to receive God’s love and forgiveness. If it’s locked up to the one, it will be locked up to the other.[1] Or to use another example, the metaphor that Jesus often uses in the Gospels to describe forgiveness is the setting free of a prisoner; it’s to “loose or unbind” someone. Without this, both sinner and sinned against are chained to their past and shackled from changing. Forgiveness is an act of transformation. In the parable, the unforgiving servant punishes himself, and is trapped in a prison of his own doing.  

Just to be clear and to avoid misunderstandings. Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting, nor does it mean condoning wrong or bad behavior.  We cannot really forgive a debt, until it is acknowledged. And we still want those who are doing wrong to change – that was part of last week’s gospel: not hesitating to speak the truth and to point out faults and sins, whether individual or systemic ones. Forgiveness and justice are not mutually exclusive. But we signed up to follow the one who taught us to turn the other cheek, and to love not only our neighbor, but also our enemy. And we believe that this way will transform us, the other, and the world.

That is certainly what we saw after the 2015 shooting in Charleston when several relatives of the nine people slain inside the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church appeared in court and told the killer, Dylann Roof, that they would forgive him. “I will never be able to hold her again, but I forgive you,” a daughter of one victim said. “We have no room for hating, so we have to forgive,” said the sister of another. “I pray God on your soul.”[2]  

That is why today’s parable is what we call a parable of the kingdom. It started with the words “the kingdom of heaven may be compared to ….,” because following the teaching of this parable is what will help bring that kingdom of heaven into being in all our lives.

How often should we forgive? Not seven times, but, seventy-seven times, or all the way to the moon and back. We forgive because God forgives. We forgive because our own debt to sin has been forgiven. We forgive, not from above out of moral superiority, we know that we are forgiven sinners, but out of love. Every time we forgive, we are passing on a tiny amount of the forgiveness we have already received from God. We forgive to break cycles of hate, violence and revenge. We forgive to change the world.

Amen.  



[1] Matthew for Everyone II, Tom Wright, p. 40

[2] https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2015/06/dylann-roof-manifesto-forgiveness/396428/